Okay. So I just reconnected with an old friend. It was her birthday yesterday and after I greeted her, we talked for a while. (Also, note that I’m very happy I have her back in my friends list. 😊 Okay, long story.)
When she asked why I am working from home, I started to freak the f*ck out and threw lame excuses. I know I shouldn’t do that, but yet I did. It made me question everything again. (that’s proof of a healthy friendship though 😆 IMO)
So I talked to boyfie and asked for his help in dealing with all these feelings and doubts.
Only then did I realize that I love where I’m at right now. And that there’s nothing wrong with working from home.
And boyfie was right, too.
If I can’t accept that I really do have a job, then no one will acknowledge that I actually have a job.
You see, I’m a freelance writer/editor. People don’t see that as common so they probably think I’m a bum.
Whenever family/relatives and friends ask about my work, it makes me feel small. Like what I do isn’t legit. I work from home, whenever I want. (Okay, maybe not. But I can definitely do it on my own time.) I get to watch YouTube videos, eat while I work, or pause and sleep when I feel like it. And the thing is, I think people has convinced me that I am doing nothing with my life. It makes me feel that I am a bum.
Whenever relatives ask why I won’t go back to teaching, I keep telling them that I don’t feel happy as a school teacher. They don’t understand. They think I’m wasting my degree and my license.
Maybe I am.
I love literature and grammar but I just am not that passionate with teaching right now. I can’t deal with kids all running about wanting to do everything else but sit on those desks. (I know there’s principles and strategies to work around that but I just can’t deal ok?)
So after having a great talk with boyfie, I realized that I am happy this way. Where I am not stressed with shitty co-workers or traffic or heat.
I also realized that just because I feel anxious or lonely, doesn’t mean something is wrong and that I have to change. I may experience some problems but that doesn’t mean I’m doomed.
I guess I just needed to write about this so I can go back to it when I go back to doubting my job lol
My goal is to be able to work from home so that I can be with family. And I am on that path right now. So I’m good.
If you can relate to this, just remember that as long as what you’re doing leads to your goal, then you’re doing great. Repeat these words to yourself (Read: Mantra).
IF YOU’RE HAPPY, YOU’RE DOING GOOD.